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Feelings and uncertainty · Topic 23 of 40

I am afraid IVF will fail. What can I do?

Worry before an IVF result is common. You can ask for help while you wait.

What you should know

Make a plan for when and how you will get results. Think about who you want with you. Choose breaks from online forums if they increase worry. Ask your care team about counseling or peer support. It can help to plan both next steps and a rest period.

What to ask your care team

“Who can I talk to if the waiting becomes too much?”

One important reminder

No coping method can guarantee a positive test.

Before your next visit

Write down your questions. Bring your medicine list and any test results you have. Ask for a plan in writing. If an answer is not clear, ask your team to explain it in a different way.

More trusted information

These sources offer more detail. They do not replace advice from your fertility clinic.